It doesn't matter to much in Skyrim. Each race still has it's own characteristics and powers but unlike Oblivion the system is set in a way that you won't be punished for picking a certain race/build combination or leveling wrong. Whether you want a warrior, theif, assassin or mage type build you can basically pick whatever race you want and go for it.
There is a 3rd person but I think most players prefer playing in first, especially if your like me and like a stealth build with a bow as your primary. Like I said it's really up to you, just what comes naturally.