Would You Rather Have three kids and no money, or no kids with three million dollars?

[killamch89]

Definitely the latter - kids are an expense and when you have no money, the kids will make it feel like you're in debt. Which one would you pick and why?

[Darth]

Not a huge fan of kids so this one was a pretty easy one for me. Would happily enjoy the three million dollars that I would only have to spend on myself and potentially a close loved one. And having three kids with no money is not at all a good thing. This question might have been good the other way around, to be honest.

[killamch89]

On 10/11/2021 at 12:32 PM, Darth said:

Not a huge fan of kids so this one was a pretty easy one for me. Would happily enjoy the three million dollars that I would only have to spend on myself and potentially a close loved one. And having three kids with no money is not at all a good thing. This question might have been good the other way around, to be honest.

Kids are an expense - extremely costly expense at that and being broke with 3 kids is a nightmare.

[ZandraJoi]

I'm already child-free by choice so this is an easy one. I rather have no kids. It's not about the money. I like my life the way it is with furbabies. It's hard to raise a kid back then & more so now.

[killamch89]

13 hours ago, ZandraJoi said:

I'm already child-free by choice so this is an easy one. I rather have no kids. It's not about the money. I like my life the way it is with furbabies. It's hard to raise a kid back then & more so now.

So true - it's such a crazy world out there and it just gets worse every day. Unless I can afford to homeschool my kids, there's no way I'd send them to regular school. Too much brainwashing and the traditional education system is turning the kids into slaves instead of free thinking individuals.

[The Blackangel]

Pass on the kids. I've explained my reasoning before, but I don't want kids under any circumstance. The money would be great, but as @ZandraJoi said, it's not about the money. My fur and feather babies are all I want, and all I need.

[ZandraJoi]

@killamch89 I'd homeschool if I had my own kids too. They can learn the real history & life lessons without it being one sided.

@The Blackangel Furbabies give you love unconditionally. Only downside, they don't live as long 😞

 

[The Blackangel]

3 hours ago, ZandraJoi said:

Furbabies give you love unconditionally. Only downside, they don't live as long 😞

The best therapists have 4 legs and fur. Mine have gotten me through my roughest times. All I have to do is hold my pitbull and the whole world is right again.

[Empire]

If you had 3 kids and absolutely no money they would starve to death or be taken by some agency, so then you would have no kids and no money. Nowdays it is like that. If you had 2 kids and $1000,000 you could give both of them a decent life. Or then again Three million dollars and no kids. I could purchase whatever I desire.

[Crazycrab]

Penniless with 3 annoying brats or a lone rich bitch. Yeah... That's a hard choice!  I'm not sure I'd even want the three kids WITH the 3 million dollars!

[Rain Dew]

This one is easy for me, the 3 million dollars with no kids. My only kids are my pets. 

[killamch89]

On 10/27/2021 at 9:36 AM, ZandraJoi said:

@killamch89 I'd homeschool if I had my own kids too. They can learn the real history & life lessons without it being one sided.

My sentiments exactly - I don't want anyone brainwashing my kids with false ideologies and preaching hatred and segregation.

[Altair]

On 10/20/2021 at 7:39 AM, ZandraJoi said:

I'm already child-free by choice so this is an easy one. I rather have no kids. It's not about the money. I like my life the way it is with furbabies. It's hard to raise a kid back then & more so now.

@killamch89 I'd homeschool if I had my own kids too. They can learn the real history & life lessons without it being one sided.

Agreed. 
I'm already child-free by choice. 
I have great respect for parents but I could never be one. I am not fit to be a parent. 
So yeah I will take the three million.

I would also homeschool if I had kids. The school system in the US is a joke. 

 

[ZandraJoi]

On 2/24/2022 at 11:19 PM, Altair said:

Agreed. 
I'm already child-free by choice. 
I have great respect for parents but I could never be one. I am not fit to be a parent. 
So yeah I will take the three million.

I would also homeschool if I had kids. The school system in the US is a joke. 

 

I 100% agree with what you said! While I don't mind taking care of people, it's different when it's a 24/7 job & all your responsibility. So much headache & heartache.

If I could go back, I would wish my parents homeschooled me. I learned more AFTER I graduated. Plus there's more one on one care so I feel the child learns better.

[Jayson]

This is a tough one because a kid is so valuable.  It's like having your eyes.  Well, maybe not.  Well, I can't explain it.